Felt Prayers

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The kids & I at our first rest stop of the day!

Have you ever been able to feel when someone is praying for you? You ever wished you could sense some prayers more than you do?

Or perhaps the better question is, do you feel like your prayers make an actual difference in the life of the person you’re praying for?

All these questions went through my mind just a couple days ago as my husband was spending the final days with his dad in Florida and I was home with the kids. I was feeling very helpless being away from him and all he asked for was my prayers

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Driving past the iconic Varsity restaurant in Atlanta

I’ve never considered praying as one of my spiritual gifts; I often wonder whether my prayers actually make a difference in the life of the person I’m praying for. Of course I believe in the power of prayer, but as a realist, it’s very hard to convince myself that there is a tangible effect.

But when it came time for me to drive 13 hours by myself with my two kids after getting barely any sleep the night before after learning about my father-in-law passing, it was the single, solitary thing that I needed: prayers.

I have to admit I was barely able to stay awake for the first two hours. I was literally slapping my face in order to be aware of the road in front of me.

But then one call came in, and then another, and then another. And then text messages and tweets and Facebook updates. Literally dozens of people praying, encouraging me, and lifting me up in a way I have never experienced to this day.

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We met Jeremy at the GA/FL border as he headed north & we headed South!

The trip turned around for me from that point forward. I can honestly say I felt better at the end of the 13 hours than I did on any other trip I’ve ever done in the car.

And let’s not mention that I was one of the only few cars driving southbound in Florida into Hurricane Isaac and I hardly experienced any rain at all on my drive!

No fatigue, no rain, no traffic. What do I attribute it to? Prayer.

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Kariss was my social media maven, helping me with photos & text updates!

I can only hope you will experience the same feeling of prayer that I felt today. To those of you who literally lifted me up beyond the strength that I could’ve forged on my own, I can only say thank you. I cannot express how much I felt your prayers and appreciate you taking time out of your lives to pray for me and my family.

If I can ever reciprocate and be a part of creating the same experience for you, please do not hesitate to ask!

The kids and I did arrive safely in Florida almost 13 hours to the dot from when we left Nashville (plus add an hour for the time change icon wink Felt Prayers

I just found out that dad’s visitation will be Wednesday night and the service will be Thursday am; of course I will pass along all the details to you as soon as I find them out.

God bless you all!

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God's promise at the end of our trip - a rainbow!

Kids Prayer Poster

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If you’re looking for a tangible way to help your family pray together on a consistent basis in 2012, consider making a Kids Prayer Poster.

When I first became a Christian in my 20′s, I quickly realized I couldn’t possibly pray for everyone all the time. So while I knew there would always be spontaneous and continuous prayer in my life, I also knew I needed to get some sore of system going to make sure there was consistency in my prayer life, especially surrounding the people and causes I care for.

So I created categories I would pray for each day, week by week. Again, that didn’t mean that I couldn’t verge from or ad to my prayers, people and categories, but it simply gave me a nice template to structure my prayers around. Which made me think, why couldn’t I do something similar for my kiddos?

Since they don’t carry a planner or smart phone around yet (thankfully) and are more captivated by pictures than words, I though a prayer poster would be the best solution. Plus, I had also been trying to devise a way for them to remember extended family that we didn’t see very often, so this fit the bill perfectly!

Here are the step by step directions for our kids prayer poster (you’ll want to supervise, but make sure your kids do as much of this as possible so that they know it’s theirs!):

1. Take a plain old sheet of white poster board and turn it horizontal.

2. Have the kids write a title across the top and then skip a space and write the days of the week across under the title.

3. Under the days of the week, write the category of what/who you’ll be praying for that day.

4. Find and print pictures to represent those categories/people, so you have a visible reminder of who/what you’re praying for.

5. Display the prayer poster in a prime area and reference it during your designated family prayer time (before school, before bed, before nap, etc)

You can come up with your categories any way you see fit, but for a point of reference, here is what/who we pray for each day:

Sunday: Church (including pastors, missionaries, non-profit causes we support, etc)
Monday: Work (our jobs, co-workers, etc) & School (teachers, classmates, etc)
Tuesday: Our Family (this is just our nuclear family)
Wednesday: My husband’s extended family
Thursday: My extended family
Friday: Friends (including other couples, kids’ friends, etc)
Saturday: Our nation (and issues surrounding our government and culture)

Again, this is only a template, but it works for us. It’s also been fun to have the visible reminders and go down picture by picture to pray for individuals, especially extended family and long-distance friends.

Does your family do anything like this? What categories for prayer would you add that I missed?

Family Prayer Shield

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I’ve been getting asked about our family Prayer Shield a lot lately, so I thought it only fitting to share about what it is, how it got started and how we plan to refine it for 2012.

I first learned about having a prayer shield from one of my mentors and colleagues, Catherine Hickem.  Though I know we are to called to cover each other in prayer, it was the first time I’d seen someone be so intentional about rallying others in protective prayer on a consistent basis. While she asked others to cover certain areas of her ministry in prayer, I thought it fitting to do something similar for our family.

Thus the Cone Prayer Shield was born! What we decided was to find someone (or a family we knew, loved and trusted) to commit to praying for our family on the same day of each month. In return, we would commit to pray for them and their family on that same day every month.

It’s as simple as that. We sent an email out (this was before Facebook) asking if friends, family, co-workers, etc would be interesting in committing to do what we described above for one year; that’s right, we asked for a 12 month commitment. I also promised to send out an update at the beginning of each month with what happened in our family in the prior month and what we coveted prayer for in the coming month (something I’ve been woefully behind in doing and hope to get better at in 2012).

We then filled out the names of the parties who agreed on a form and posted it in an easily visible, highly trafficked area (for us, that meant the fridge, as seen above). I also made smaller copies of the shield for me to carry in my purse organizer and put in the car (though I may now make one for my iPhone in 2012).

I’m also purposing in 2012 to contact the people we’re praying for in some way on the day we pray. I’m not pretending to think I’ll be able to call them each time (since I’m a horrible phone person), but it may be a text message, Facebook wall post or a quick email.

I’ve gone so far as to create a very basic (VERY basic) family prayer shield for you all to get started as well, if you wish. It’s simply a Google doc, and some of you would be able to create something much prettier on your own, but for those of you without computer software or know-how, I wanted you to have something you could simply and quickly print out today.

You would be amazed at what can happen in your life when you know your family is covered in prayer each and every single day of the year. it doesn’t cost you anything: only faith and commitment. So what’s stopping you from starting today?

Download your free family prayer shield

Wordless Wednesday: My 7 Year Old’s Christmas Prayer

Answered Prayers! No Lymphoma or Thyroid Cancer!

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I have good news! Our prayers were answered! There is no lymphoma or thyroid cancer in my body!

(That, and I lost 6 pounds from yesterday – or maybe it’s just the difference in doctor’s scales…whatever it is, don’t steal my joy!)

It’s no secret that I was quite downhearted after yesterday. While I completely appreciated my visit with Dr. Forbes, I was upset that I had to undergo another biopsy. He recommended Dr. John Interlandi, who we learned later to be one of the top 50 Endocrinology doctors in the country specializing in thyroid issues.

That helped…a little.

From the minute we stepped in his office, the staff was delightful and warm, which set me at ease. The first thing they did when they took me back (after learning of my encouraging weight loss) was to take more ultrasound pictures. I wasn’t aware that we’d be doing this, but I was up for anything that kept me away from needles that much longer.

By the time the doctor came back to us, more than an hour after getting there, he announced confidently, “You don’t need a biopsy.”

Ricky and I started at each other, absolutely stunned.

He proceeded with the normal intake questions, as well as asking what led me to this point, which led him back to his initial statement, “You don’t have lymphoma. You have an almost textbook case of Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis. You don’t need a biopsy today.”

Of course we were thrilled!!!! But I was also cautious….

Why would someone even suggest I had lymphoma, or that I should have surgery to have a mass removed, if it’s this obvious to you???” was all I could muster.

“If he had seen an ultrasound, he would have been able to tell that.”

But the thing was the doctor that did the biopsy did so as a result of an ultrasound, and actually performed the biopsy WHILE using an ultrasound machine!!!

Anger does not begin to describe how I felt.

Not only have I spent a lot of time and money (and energy!) going to the initial ENT, who then referred me to a separate hospital for a blood draw, another imaging center for my ultrasound and then yet another endocrinologist for the biopsy – BUT THEY WERE WRONG!!!
(I could have had all these things done in Dr. Interlandi’s office in one visit!)

Let me stop here to caution you on who you decide to trust your health and your body to. I don’t often (if ever) gripe about companies on here just because I have a negative experience, but I feel strongly against letting this happen to anyone else. This debacle started at Cool Springs ENT (who I learned about from Dave Ramsey’s radio show and was intrigued because they said, “You won’t leave until you have a diagnosis!”). Dr. Kryar, who performed the first biopsy, has an office in Columbia, TN, but works in the Cool Springs ENT office one day a week – though the whole time he seemed dissatisfied that he didn’t have his typical office surroundings (SO DON’T AGREE TO PARTNER WITH THIS OFFICE was all I could think!).
*I won’t go into details, but my disappointment with this collective group of doctors and support staff is immense. You can message me if you want more info….

So before today, I was told I had a large nodule on the left side of my thryoid whose cells resembled lymphoma; I could opt to have the mass removed now or undergo a second biopsy to ascertain whether it was Hashimoto’s or lymphoma.

Today, I learned that there are multiple lymphpocytes in my neck, but that is typical of Hashimoto’s. Cancer nodules typically have multiple blood vessels in and around them; mine had one. This nodule was not even touching my thyroid, which obviously meant it can’t be thyroid cancer.

Again, I wondered how and/or why a doctor would even suggest such a severe diagnosis. Dr. Interlandi explained that when there are cells of similar size, it can be indicative of cancer, but that the ultrasound alone should have ruled that out.

So here I am, exhausted yet exhilarated.

Make no mistake, my thyroid is far from healthy. In fact, I can’t count on both hands the number of times the doctor used the phrase “Thyroid Failure”. And don’t even get me started on what happened when I mentioned I had been taking kelp supplements (but you can read about it here – what I thought was helpful could have been deadly!)

I have a feeling it’s still a long road ahead. I’m still going to stick with my elimination diet and lifestyle change and of course keep in close contact with these two wonderful doctors I’ve found this week. I’m sure there are still many blood tests, ultrasounds and adjustments in my near future, but I can handle it.

After all, I’ve got you to ride the wave with icon smile Answered Prayers! No Lymphoma or Thyroid Cancer!

Practical Ways to Pray: Tommy Nelson Blog

Tommy Mommy whitepurple 150x150 Practical Ways to Pray: Tommy Nelson BlogMy latest “Tommy Mommy” post, “Practical Ways to Pray” is live on the Tommy Nelson blog today! Here’s an excerpt:

Coming to know Christ in my 20’s, I felt like I had a lot of catching up to do.Luckily, I had (and still have) a very godly woman who was willing to mentor me, answer my questions and come alongside me as I learned what it meant to walk though life with the Lord.

On my journey, I learned a simple, yet profound principle that I want to pass on to my children:
When you don’t know what to pray or what words to say, pray God’s Word back to Him.

So now when my own kids don’t know what to pray or how to act, I walk with them through the Bible…

Read the full article on Practical Ways to Pray Everyday over at Tommy Nelson!

Expect Results

Many of us pray, but do not wait for a response.  Sometimes the response we receive from God is not the same as what we praying for, and therefore we believe the prayer to be ineffective.

Too many times I believe we pray without actually expecting God to deliver results.  It is as if we are throwing words into a great void and hoping for the answer to fall out of the sky!  Dr. Gary Smalley writes, “If you’re praying for an answer, make sure you’re looking for one”.  According to Hebrews 11:1, faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.

Has God answered your prayers in the past?  Of course he has because he is faithful.  That is also what gives us the confidence to continue in prayer.  1 John 5:14-15 reminds us that:

This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.  And if we know that he hears us-whatever we ask-we know that we have what we asked of him.

Be both faithful and persistent in your prayer life.  Pray continually according to 1 Thessalonians 5:17.  Put your faith in God and expect Him to reveal answers in direct accordance to your prayers that are in his will.

Weekend to Remember in Nashville this weekend

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We first got to attend this conference over a year ago in Florida when I won passes on the radio (shocking, I know). I had to write an email about the thing that surprised me most once I got married. What do you think it was?

Though I thought Ricky and I were SO similar when we were dating, after getting married I found out we couldn’t be more different!

Even the best marriages need a tune up. You know I strongly believe that the best teachers are the best students. So I encourage all of you to attend a Weekend to Remember if you haven’t had the chance to yet. Stay tuned to the site for more information about these events, discounts, and maybe even a giveaway!

So if you don’t see me on the computer much this weekend, just say a prayer for us and know we’re spending some much needed one-on-one time together having fun!

Is prayer a burden for you?

I just got back from enjoying a couple hours at the pool with a new friend here in Nashville who invited me and the kids to hang out with her this morning. Of course we stayed longer than we should have (it’s so hard to pull kids away from a pool!), so I was hurrying them through lunch and bedtime preparations in order to salvage nap time.

I had successfully gotten Britton into his bed after a song and a prayer and then went to follow up with Kariss. After she completed her baby’s bedtime routine, she climbed into bed and waited for me to turn on her fan, push play on her CD and chew on her left ear (the latter is a new addition to the routine – she says it gives her goose bumps!). I know she would have been content with just that and I could have walked out of the room and started my own down time. But I felt an internal tug – “you haven’t prayed yet” came from a voice inside of me.

It makes no difference to her,” I thought to myself. Yet just at that moment I was stopped in my tracks.

All at once my mind was flooded with all the prayers that have carried me through my life; while I may not have heard each of them or known they were being prayed at the time, I know I am where I am now thanks to those prayers.

So I quickly turned back, leaned over my little girl and thanked God for who she is, how she takes care of her baby and her brother and most of all for the gift that she is in my life.

Do you see prayer as a burden, something that unnecessarily takes up time in your day, or are you burdened to pray, feeling grateful that God would choose to to sit as His feet and listen to your words and petitions? I pray the latter for you today. Your life and the life of those you pray for will forever be changed as a result of that burden.

and the winner is….

Congratulations to Jeannette! She’s the winner of our Mother’s Day Giveaway of the book, “Raising Your Children with No Regrets” by Catherine Hickem (according to True Random Number Generator at Random.org: Result: 15). Jeannette, please email me at econemicliving@gmail.com with your address so I can send you the book.

I wish each and every one of you a  Happy Mother’s Day. I encourage those of you in Florida to see Catherine Hickem in person on May 16 at Christ Church in Ft. Lauderdale or in Birmingham, AL on May 30 at North Highlands Baptist Church. You can find out more information or register at http://intentionalmoms.org/

Also, don’t forget to watch and forward A Prayer for Every Mom - I know it will encourage you and those you know in a special way this Mother’s Day.