Easter: the journey between the secular and the spiritual (Tommy Nelson Blog)

kids easter Easter: the journey between the secular and the spiritual (Tommy Nelson Blog)This month over at the Tommy Nelson blog, I wrote about “Easter: the journey between the secular and the spiritual“:

For as long as I can remember, Easter has marked a trepidatious journey between the secular and the spiritual. From comedians to theologians, everyone has questioned the bridge going from Jesus dying on a cross to hiding candy-filled eggs in a basket.

As Christians and as parents, I feel like there’s a lot of pressure on us that comes from a variety of angles this time of year.

We’re expected to somehow teach our children the significance of this holiest of holidays while still dressing up in coordinating outfits for pictures and having a full-blown feast ready to eat right after Sunday church!

If we have trouble making sense of the day ourselves, how then are we supposed to embody the truth for the littlest of ones God has entrusted into our care?

Read the Full Article over at TommyNelson.com….

 

If you do have young children and want some great suggestions for resources that beautifully illustrate the Easter story, might I suggest a family favorite, The Story of Easter: Read & Share or another sweet story, The Parable of the Lily?

What are some of your family’s favorite Easter traditions and stories?

Pinterest Valentine’s Card Kids Photo Project

I admittedly do not have a full blown Pinterest obsession yet, but when I found these Pinterest Valentine’s Cards, I knew this kids’ photo project was one I had to try this Valentine’s Day!

To reiterate, I am not what you would call a ‘crafty gal’. I’m sure you could get much more creative than I did, but I wanted to share the steps for these fun homemade Valentine’s Day cards for kids.

This was the initial pin I found:

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So I grabbed my kids after school yesterday and snapped these pictures of them after running around on the playground for an hour (think natural, not staged). With the the Camera Plus app on my iPhone Pinterest Valentines Card Kids Photo Project, I used the “Depth of Field” in FX Effects to blur the background a bit:
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From there, I sent it to my computer to add the Bible verse (John 15:13), “Happy Valentine’s Day”, and their names via Adobe Photoshop Pinterest Valentines Card Kids Photo Project:

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After the pictures were saved as a JPEG, I uploaded them to Walgreens.com where they’re having a print sale (Buy 25, get 25 free with code SHARE25). This gave us enough to hand out to everyone in each of their classes, plus a few left over for the scrapbook (if I ever get around to that!).

The pictures were ready this morning, so I stopped by Walgreens after taking the kids to school to pick up the pics, along with a bag of Dum Dum Pops that were on sale for $2 a bag (and had plenty in one bag to cover both classes). After school we came home and laid everything out on the kitchen table. I used a razor blade to cut slits just above and below their fist while the kids wrote their friends’ names on the back of the pictures.

Then, the kids slid the Dum Dum Pops Pinterest Valentines Card Kids Photo Project through the slits and Voila! Here is our final product:

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In retrospect, I wish I’d had the kids hold their arms at more of an angle like the original pictures, but still, I can’t believe we have these done almost a week before Valentine’s Day!

Are you planning anything crafty and creative for your kids’ Valentine’s Day cards?

 

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Family New Year’s Resolutions: Tommy Nelson Blog

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I’m back on the Tommy Nelson Blog today with a post about Family New Year’s Resolutions!

Does your family set New Year’s Resolutions?

I realize the New Year is typically a time for people to reflect and re-evaluate, but how often do you include your kids when you set such goals? After all, aren’t we supposed to model God’s standard of behavior when it comes to health, wealth and happiness?

I think one of the fatal mistakes we make when it comes to setting goals and changing behavior is that we try to go it alone. Whether it’s an accountability partner to help protect your relationships or a running buddy to help you lose weight, teaming up has proven to increase your chances of actually sticking to your goals.

Read the entire article on the Tommy Nelson Blog….

Kids Volunteer Too

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Photo courtesy of Boho Bella Photography

For whatever reason, it seems that every year as the temperatures drop, the idea of volunteering comes up. Perhaps it’s because the Fall signifies the start of the holidays and cold weather, two reasons that make it even more unbearable for many of us to imagine others alone and without basic needs being met.

But a question I keep getting asked lately is where kids can volunteer too? Though many of us poked fun at our parents for their tales of walking three miles to & from school without shoes (uphill both ways, of course), the truth is, we realize how fortunate we are compared to the majority of society….and that sentiment is even more true for our own children.

In fact, not only will most of you who read this have the means to clothe your children, but the truth is you struggle more with getting them to narrow down their birthday wish list than you do with figuring out where their next meal will come from.

We’re the first to recognize that while there are always things we want to improve on, we have great kids. But they simply didn’t grow up in the time of our parents. I mean really – my dad was born during the Great Depression & fought in World War II – I don’t stand a chance of teaching my kids the kind of gratitude and appreciation that came naturally from growing up in that era. So without guilting them daily with the fact that they better clean their dinner plate because there are starving kids in Africa, we thought we’d try something a little closer to home.

We volunteered as a family at a local soup kitchen.

The truth is, we found out about it when Disney World was offering free Disney tickets if you volunteered for a day. But what was really great about their website was that they were very clear in presenting opportunities that kids could participate in as well! That’s how we found out about Good Food for Good People in partnering with Hands on Nashville. Our kids played in the next room while we prepped & cooked food, then they came and ate with us as a group and joined in the clean up. (You can read more about our kids volunteer experience here).

Even though our kids weren’t actually chopping or cooking the food, they still got to help and more importantly, they got to meet the people being directly affected by the organization.

If you’re looking for volunteer opportunities for your kids, try some of these ideas:
*Ask at your local church or community center for family friendly volunteer opportunities already in place
*Consider sponsoring a child as a family through organizations like Compassion International or World Vision
*Encourage your children to save their money and then buy items for a shoebox for Operation Christmas Child
***Better yet, have your kids clean out their rooms and use their old clothes and games for a garage/consignment sale and donate that money!!! Clean house and give to charity at the same time!
*Call your local children’s hospital and see if you and your child can come play/read/sit with some of the kids with long term illnesses.
*Visit a local nursing home with your kids to just talk, sing Christmas Carols, play cards, deliver pictures, etc
*Check out Serve.gov to find local volunteer opportunities, or better yet, CREATE YOUR OWN!

Most importantly, have a dialogue (notice I say ‘dialogue’ and not ‘speech’) with your kids about why it’s important to give of our time and gifts (both intrinsic gifts & financial gifts), discover what they’re passionate about and build a volunteer experience from there. If they love animals, look a visiting a local shelter and walking the animals. If they love art, call your local museum and find out if they can help with cleaning up the kids’ areas there. If they love kids, maybe they can volunteer at your church nursery.

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Brushing Time = Learning Time {Giveaway}

Spinbrush 100x300 Brushing Time = Learning Time {Giveaway}One thing I’ve come to appreciate about the Arm & Hammer Spinbrush ProClean & kids Spinbrush is that it takes the guess work out of brushing your teeth. I know it’s getting to places I otherwise couldn’t as long as I move it around my entire mouth.

Even though it seems to get the job done faster, I want to make sure my kids are still brushing for the same amount of time to really ensure they’re getting ALL their teeth clean. So I like to turn brushing time into learning time!

This is one of those rare moments in the day where I have them both captive in the same place at the same time icon smile Brushing Time = Learning Time {Giveaway} Since my kids are 5 & 7, they’re technically old enough to brush their teeth by themselves, but I still like to be there for the process as part of our bedtime routine. So I take advantage of this teachable moment and often sing to them in French while they brush.

Usually it’s something as simple as their “ABC’s” or “1-2-3′s” in French, but it’s the perfect amount of time to brush and it reinforces the language and concepts they already know without seeming like I’m “babying” them.

On that note, I also love writing notes on our bathroom mirror with dry erase pens. Sometimes it’s Bible verses, other times it’s characteristics I hope they’ll embody. Sometimes it’s even as simple as writing “I <3 you” and making the heart big enough so their face will fit inside! Whatever it is, I make sure to do everything I can to turn the ‘dull’ into ‘delightful’ at the end of our day!

How do you make your dull moments delightful? I want to know!

Once again, one of you lucky people will win a $25 Visa Gift Card and all you have to do to enter is share how you turn random moments in your day into learning time for your kids. If you don’t have kids, that’s ok! Just share an instance that turned from dull into delightful! Leave a comment below before midnight on August 8 to be eligible to win.

 

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Baby Teeth Need Love Too – What Parents Don’t Know: Giveaway Day 5

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When my kids’ baby teeth started arriving on the scene, I can honestly say I was much more concerned about the pain it caused my baby and not the dental care they needed to receive. Honestly, I figured that if their baby teeth are going to fall out anyway, I didn’t need to worry too much about brushing them!

What parents don’t know is that even baby teeth need love too! The dental hygiene habits that parents instill in their children, even as infants, more often than not follow them into adulthood. That’s why it’s critical that as soon as that first tooth comes in, you make sure to schedule your child’s first visit to the dentist. While flossing may be a bit much at this stage, getting in the habit of brushing your child’s teeth twice a day is so important.

No one plans on their two year old getting cavities, and yet, it happens! While teaching your kids good dental hygiene is important, what’s even more influential is to set a good example. Make sure your kids see you taking proper care of your teeth and they’ll be more likely to follow in your footsteps.

We love a toothpaste like Arm & Hammer Advance While Brilliant Sparkle toothpaste that we’re comfortable with everyone in the family using. What are your favorite ways to get your kids brushing their teeth properly and regularly? Share your best tip below and you’ll be entered to win a $25 Visa Gift Card!

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This is a sponsored post for Church & Dwight Co., Inc, the maker of ARM & HAMMER branded products, who is paying me to try different products. Sign up for a free sample of Advance White Brilliant Sparkle Toothpaste and then head over to The Switch & Save Challenge to keep up with all of the bloggers and enter to win $25,000.

Kids Car Booster Seat Law

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courtesy of Parents.com

As a mom of two young kids, I was shocked to learn about what the real car booster seat law was as well as the standards that should be in effect that aren’t.

Car seats and booster seats are a daily part of our lives as parents, but do you really know how a booster seat should fit? When a child should move from a car seat to a booster seat? What booster seats are safer than others?

Thanks to the Today Show, many of these questions were answered for me recently.

If your child is 4’9” / 80 pounds and under, then they should be in a booster seat. The seat belt should lay flat across their thighs, not their stomach. You also need to make sure the seat belt is not hitting their neck and sits comfortable across their chest and shoulder.

Visit Parents.com for car seat reviews if you’re interested in learning more about what’s out there.

You can also watch the entire Today Show video, “Are your kids safe in their booster seats”, below:

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Financial Education for Kids

money Financial Education for KidsPersonally I believe it’s never too early to start financial education for kids. At the same time, it’s never too late either!

Whether your kids are just learning to talk or you’re getting ready to drop them off at college, it is SO important to teach money management for kids. In our microwave culture where kids want what they want and they want it know, it is critical that we teach (and model!) the concepts of hard work, patience and responsibility.

If you’re looking for ideas on teaching kids about money, look no further. Here are just a few tips:

1. Start Young

I’m not all about paying kids an allowance for jobs they’re expected to do, but I do support starting young by paying kids for extra jobs or for things we value in our home. For instance, I’ve paid my older child for reading a certain amount of books on our own and both can early coins for memorizing Bible verses. If they only earn $.50 a week from spare jobs, they’ll learn just how valuable that $20 toy really is!

2. Talk Money

My father grew up during the Great Depression, so he truly understood the value of the dollar; our kids today have no clue. Help them understand what money is, where it comes from, how much things cost, and what you do to earn money. While you don’t want to over-emphasize the importance of money in your life, you do want your children to be aware of what happens ever time you swipe that card!

3. Speak in their currency

Small children may not understand the true value of money (my 4 year old would much rather have a handful of pennies than a dollar!), so you may have to “pay” them in ways they understand, such as tv time, game time, or other special treats.

4. Delayed gratification

There is so much value in letting children wait for something they want. Not only will they learn the value of “no” (which will keep them from becoming spoiled adults), but they will also learn a valuable lesson in self-control and restraint.

5. Mistakes are OK

One principle I hear over and over again from my mentors and other parents I respect is that they’d much rather have their children fail under their own roof where they are there to pick them up, dust them off and help them recover than to rescue them repeatedly, only to send them out into the world to fail on their own. As children grow older and exhibit maturity, give them some autonomy to make their own financial decisions.

The bottom line when it comes to financial education for kids, establish healthy habits as soon as possible. Show them the proper way to save, spend and give today so that they will be financially savvy tomorrow. Teaching kids about money now will help them avoid some of the pitfalls we fell into when we were young!

Kids Craft: Summer Scrapbook Day 5

Summer Scrapbook Kids Craft: Summer Scrapbook Day 5It’s Day 5 of our Summer Scrapbook kids craft and today’s letter is: E
Our character theme is: Excel

Our verse for today:
But just as you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us —see that you also excel in this grace of giving. – 2 Corinthians 8:7

Enjoy capturing all your favorite summer activities and memories that start with the letter “E”. Encourage your kids by looking over their work from the past few days.

Kids Craft: Summer Scrapbook Day 4

Summer Scrapbook Kids Craft: Summer Scrapbook Day 4It’s Day 4 of our Summer Scrapbook kids craft and today’s letter is: D
Our character theme is: Devoted

Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. ~ Romans 12:10

Enjoy capturing all your favorite summer activities and memories that start with the letter “D”. Encourage your kids by looking over their work from the past few days.