Prayer for you or me?

bible prayer hands Prayer for you or me? I admit, I’m not the best prayer warrior.

There. I said it. Are you surprised?

But just because I don’t consider prayer one of my spiritual gifts does not give me the license not to pray.

In fact, I would venture to say that prayer helps me as much as the person I’m praying for.

Through prayer, not only am I lifting someone else closer to the throne of God, but I am literally putting them ahead of myself. In putting my own thoughts aside in order to focus on someone else’s needs, my own heart benefits as a byproduct.

I’ve also learned that in order to fill that ever so important request, “Will you pray for me?”, I often need to stop in that moment and do so. Sometimes it is with the person, sometimes it is simply a quick talk with God once I get in the car; yet whatever the prayer is, I know that through the act of prayer, I am fulfilling the will of my Heavenly Father.

I wish we would all walk through life that way: knowing that we don’t have to compete to get ahead, but instead by helping others, we in turn truly better ourselves. It’s a win-win!

While I don’t recommend entering prayer for the sole purpose of thinking, “What can I get out of this for myself?”, I would also encourage you to open up your mind to the possibility that praying for someone else just might bless you in return!

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people. ~ Ephesians 6:18

3 Practical Ways to Pray with your Kids

I always get asked advice on how to pray with kids. Giving our kids tangible ways to talk to a seemingly intangible God makes prayer personal for them. Here are just three practical ways to get them started until they feel comfortable enough to venture out on their own prayer path:

  1. Pray/Sing God’s Word back to Him

    One of the best ways to pray, regardless of whether you’re young or old, is to pray and/or sing God’s Word back to Him. A great resource for this is 100 Prayers, 100 Praise Songs by Stephen Elkins or by putting scripture to music.

  2. Pray over Pictures

    Put pictures of family and your kids’ friends in their room on a bulletin board or on your fridge. Find a regular time to pray over them every day.

  3. Prayer Cards

    Take index cards and write categories on them for each day of the week for you and your family to pray over together. Here is just an example of what your week could look like:
    Sunday: church/missions
    Monday: Parents’ co-workers/neighbors
    Tuesday: Mommy’s Extended Family
    Wednesday: Daddy’s Extended Family
    Thursday: School friends/teachers
    Friday: Mentors
    Saturday: Friends who aren’t saved

To read my entire article on Kids Prayer Tips, visit TommyNelson.com

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Practical Ways to Pray: Tommy Nelson Blog

Tommy Mommy whitepurple 150x150 Practical Ways to Pray: Tommy Nelson BlogMy latest “Tommy Mommy” post, “Practical Ways to Pray” is live on the Tommy Nelson blog today! Here’s an excerpt:

Coming to know Christ in my 20’s, I felt like I had a lot of catching up to do.Luckily, I had (and still have) a very godly woman who was willing to mentor me, answer my questions and come alongside me as I learned what it meant to walk though life with the Lord.

On my journey, I learned a simple, yet profound principle that I want to pass on to my children:
When you don’t know what to pray or what words to say, pray God’s Word back to Him.

So now when my own kids don’t know what to pray or how to act, I walk with them through the Bible…

Read the full article on Practical Ways to Pray Everyday over at Tommy Nelson!

Expect Results

Many of us pray, but do not wait for a response.  Sometimes the response we receive from God is not the same as what we praying for, and therefore we believe the prayer to be ineffective.

Too many times I believe we pray without actually expecting God to deliver results.  It is as if we are throwing words into a great void and hoping for the answer to fall out of the sky!  Dr. Gary Smalley writes, “If you’re praying for an answer, make sure you’re looking for one”.  According to Hebrews 11:1, faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.

Has God answered your prayers in the past?  Of course he has because he is faithful.  That is also what gives us the confidence to continue in prayer.  1 John 5:14-15 reminds us that:

This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.  And if we know that he hears us-whatever we ask-we know that we have what we asked of him.

Be both faithful and persistent in your prayer life.  Pray continually according to 1 Thessalonians 5:17.  Put your faith in God and expect Him to reveal answers in direct accordance to your prayers that are in his will.